Talked to Sherah on the phone this afternoon. It started kinda awkward cause we had a tiny small conflict from the previous phone call, but yea she knows what to say and what to do to a hard-headed best friend like me :D i do not know exactly how she does it O.O seriously dude, i DO NOT know. The next thing we know, we're already just laughing our heads off. Dang! she's good. she's dang good alright.
anyway, great to know that she's doing great with studies. Really really am happy and proud of her. She's very focus on her studies, which is a good thing. Something i need to learn from her, well at least she forced me to learn that from her XD
Shared some of my dreams with her, and she shared hers too. Even though we went through that a number of times. But I guess that's how best friends talk? You know that they're still gonna listen, still as excited even the topics we talk are the same over and over again. And if I'm lucky, we'll laugh about our dreams, not discouraging, but just making our dreams sounds more....fun with the huge mixture of laughter haha. of course, knowing that we're still gonna reach it and we still have each other's full support. I laughed till i was gasping for air during that phone call. Literally, gasping for air.
We've been friends since primary 3. Then we got closer when we were primary 5. Then form 3 came and BAM!! talking about best friends :D yea we argued, we had conflicts, we had disagreements, there were tears, anger, full blast anger, overload anger XD then of course there were understandings, learning, tolerating, forgiving, giving, taking, laughter, full blast laughter, overload laughter :)
And the funny thing is, there are times where i do not understand myself, but she does. I mean seriously? how can another person understand you more than yourself?! O.O but yea, she's just that awesome :)
I do miss high school. a lot. I'm doing good in IS, but yes i had a very great 5 years in Lok Yuk. Friends i met there are just pure awesome. After graduation, we still meet up, we still chat from time to time. But there's this different feeling. Awkwardness? Not so sure is that the right word. I guess is because we all have our own life, we all have other people or places that we belong to. So maybe the topics we talk aren't ALWAYS 'clicking'? And it's okay :) who says we need to have that to prove how strong a friendship is? People come and go. People move on. But Sherah taught and showed me something new in terms of friendship, and that is we still can live the moment, we still can go our separate ways, we still can meet new people, yet knowing we're still best friends. And even better, she showed me that friendships aren't based on how often we text, how often we meet up, how often we talk, how much time we spend. It's the moment where we still can laugh and talk so naturally after not contacting each other for ages. I cherish this friendship a lot, and I'm grateful to have my best friend :)
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